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Offer It Up – Redemptive Suffering Part I

By June 26, 2020July 2nd, 20204 Comments
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How many of us have struggled with suffering? Why does God allow it, and what do we do with it?

Let’s face it, we do everything we can to alleviate it, and certainly our culture mitigates against it as well. However, we must remember we merit tremendous grace for ourselves and others when we bear our suffering well. When we unite our suffering to Christ’s, we actually participate in God’s work of salvation.

Members of the Body

Through the Incarnation and the grace of the sacraments, God has instilled power into our suffering. God united Himself to our humanity (Philippians 2:6–8) so that our humanity could be united to his divinity (2 Peter 1:4). In other words, the Word became flesh to make us partakers of the divine nature, and if we are partakers of the divine nature, then we can participate in his saving work. Our suffering can be united to God’s saving work because through Baptism He has made us part of his mystical Body—the Church. As Paul wrote to the Corinthians, “Now you are the body of Christ and individually member of it” (1 Corinthians 12:27).

In and of itself, our suffering is nothing. However, as members of his Body, our suffering is transformed into something meritorious. Through the Incarnation and the grace we receive through the sacraments, our suffering has redemptive value. “What was previously meaningless now makes sense in Christ” (Fr. Francis Fernandez, author of In Conversation with God). We have the opportunity to be co-redeemers with Christ! Saint John Paul II wrote, “In the mystery of the Church as his Body, Christ has in a sense opened his own redemptive suffering to all human suffering.” That is powerful!

United to the Cross

Think about how much good can come out of our suffering if we unite it with the Cross of Christ! Because of the Incarnation, we have been given the opportunity to participate in the work of salvation. In my daily meditation, In Conversation with God, Fr. Frances Fernandez writes, “God frequently blesses his friends by making them share in his Cross and making them co-redeemers with him.” Wow…we must be very good friends!

Saint Paul VI said, “The Lord turned suffering into a means of redemption. With his pain, He has redeemed us, provided we never refuse to unite our sorrow to his, and to make it, together with his, into a means of redemption.” In other words, do we willingly accept our suffering and unite it to the cross of Christ for the good of our soul and the souls of others? Or do we waste it? How much wasted suffering there is in our world today!

Offer it up

Earlier this year I was at a Mass being celebrated by the Archbishop. During the consecration I heard the words I have heard thousands of times in my life: “This is my body which will be given up for you.” That day it struck me to the core. I have been battling cancer, and although I have been offering up my cross for those who have left the Church, I have questioned whether those souls are really being helped by my suffering. But that day I understood. I am a member of the Body of Christ, so as Christ did for us, I can do for others. I can offer my body, my suffering, for the good of others.

Francis Fernandez wrote, “When offered to God in a spirit of penance, a person’s physical or moral suffering ceases to be something useless or harmful and acquires a redeeming value for the salvation of his brothers and sisters.” Instead of running from our suffering, we can embrace it. Suffering is a means of conforming ourselves to Christ, and if we unite our crosses to the cross of Christ our suffering becomes efficacious. Indeed, we merit tremendous grace for ourselves and others when we bear our suffering well.

Read Part II here.

Denise Gustafson

Denise holds a Master’s degree in Biblical Theology from the Augustine Institute along with a teaching credential and a Bachelor’s degree in Accounting from California State University, Fullerton. Denise spent ten years as an instructor for the St. John Vianney Theological Seminary Lay Division before retiring in 2022. Prior to teaching for the Lay Division, she spent over ten years teaching in Catholic schools and directed RCIA at the parish level. Denise now resides in Pilot Mountain, North Carolina with her husband.


  • Cathie Lambert says:

    So just how do we offer up our suffering, how do we ‘connect’ our suffering to that of Christ? Do we just say, “I’m offering my suffering to you, I’m offering to be joined with you in your suffering.”?

    • Ashley Crane says:

      Cathie, that’s a great question! I forwarded your question to Denise Gustafson to make sure she saw it, and here is her reply, which I’m posting on her behalf:

      “Here is what I have found:
      When I’m suffering, I don’t complain, and I try to carry a cheerful disposition.
      I try to have a happy countenance. Do you see? If I complain then my suffering becomes about me.
      Don’t get me wrong, I do vent. I let my husband know how I’m feeling, and I have cried plenty to my oncologist.
      However, for me, keeping a cheerful disposition is important; it takes the focus off of me and allows me to offer my suffering up for others.

      I also pray daily for those for whom I am offering up my suffering.
      If Christ could offer himself for my redemption, then as a member of His body, I can do the same for others.
      WOW…what a grace!!!
      So, I think of Him carrying His cross for me, and I am then able to carry my cross for others. I tell Him this.
      I also unite myself to Mary as much as I can. In her humanness, nobody has suffered as much or more than her.

      Finally, in answer to the question:
      How do we ‘connect’ our suffering to that of Christ? Do we just say, ‘I’m offering my suffering to you, I’m offering to be joined with you in your suffering.’?
      Absolutely! However, take the word just out of the equation because it’s more than that.
      It’s all of the above, and remember, it’s only by the grace of God that we are allowed to participate in His suffering. That is a huge gift! St. Therese of Lisieux said, ‘Suffering is the very best gift He has to give to us. He gives it only to his chosen friends.’ Ultimately, what do we do with this gift? Do we wallow in self pity or use it to bring others to Christ?
      I pray often: Use me as your instrument, and I rejoice that He does.”

  • Babette says:

    Yes, tell him you would like to offer up your suffering with His. I try to meditate on His passion And I asked Him to allow me to unite my suffering physical or emotional with His. I asked him to allow my suffering to be accepted in union with His on the cross

  • T. McCormick says:

    Manuel Fodera, said, “Jesus gave me suffering because He needs suffering united to Him to save the world. Jesus called me ‘warrior of light’ to conquer the evil and darkness of the world.”

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